Friday, June 30, 2006

A Troubled Raggedy Update

“There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love” ~ Bryant H. McGill

*Bddrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring * Bdrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrig

Her: *A most sincere apology. From reading what you wrote I completely understand how you feel.

Me: *I let her know how much I appreciate her understanding. (This is how genuine relating feels. She did not play victim and stated honestly and openly that she understood why I was hurt.) *It is alright. I am feeling much better now. Thank you. (You were instantly forgiven with your opening words)

Us:*We had a conversation about a lot of other things. It was a good talk.

Me: * I apologized for the hurt the post caused. (I expressed my true feelings about some pain that I have been living with in relating to her in a post)

Her: *You had every right to feel that way, but thank you.

(This was the most beautiful conversation we have had in a long time)

Me: *I love you!

Her: *I love you too!

I believe the post saved a troubled relationship.

I removed the post from my blog. I appreciate the support from all the wonderful people who responded. I love you all!


Blogger OldLady Of The Hills said...

Isn't it wonderful when communication clears up murky things and then the Sun can shine through again in a froendship...! Glad that worked out for you both...
Have a lovely weekend, my dear.

June 30, 2006 1:37 PM  
Blogger Cliff said...

I'm glad all is well again for you two.

June 30, 2006 2:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You folks have a terrrrrific holiday! ;)

June 30, 2006 2:49 PM  
Blogger Vickie said...

Sometimes if we listen---sometimes if we speak----both are communication tools it is just how we use them.

This is wonderful Raggedy. I am PMSing today so these tears can be for joy. :)

You are a beautiful lady. I am so happy this has worked for you and know your heart is much lighter.

Have a wonderful holiday.

June 30, 2006 3:51 PM  
Blogger OldHorsetailSnake said...

Kisses and smooches and cuddly hugs to you, too.

Making up is SO nice. Let's do it again.

(Kisses and smooches and cuddly hugs to you, too.)

June 30, 2006 5:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Forgiveness ~ Good News!
Happy 4th of July!

June 30, 2006 8:33 PM  
Blogger OldHorsetailSnake said...

Hey, Rags: Thanks for the Caliend bit. Very good.

June 30, 2006 8:59 PM  
Blogger kenju said...

I am glad it worked out too, Raggedy.

June 30, 2006 11:21 PM  
Blogger Karen said...

I am so happy to know it is cleared up and all is well; the relationship should be stronger now. Communication is important. I can't stand contention and I think you're the same way. *HUUUUUGS*

Have a wonderful weekend!

July 01, 2006 9:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, the power of the post! Glad you worked things out.

July 01, 2006 1:27 PM  
Blogger Teresa said...

Yeah!! I am glad that everything is on the mend.

July 01, 2006 4:35 PM  
Blogger Miss Cellania said...

I'm glad to hear it worked out!

July 01, 2006 11:51 PM  

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